Sometimes Always Never. Memories from a film.

Posted on 21/07/2019 By

Sometimes Always Never.

Picture of a beach on a grey day. Several loan people standing dotted around in the distance. In the foreground, a man in a coat, satchel over his left shoulder, holding an umbrella in his left hand.

There is a “box” at Laurel Cottage. It has a lid. On the lid is the inscription…

“Bereavement”. (more…)

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30506 (SR S15): Tony’s Engine.

Posted on 14/07/2019 By

30506. Tony’s Engine.

Tony and 30506 …..1997 before withdrawal for rebuild.

Taken in 1997. Tony, in front of his locomotive before withdrawal for rebuild.

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A Midsummer’s Day in the Surrey Hills.

Posted on 07/07/2019 By

Midsummer’s Day in the Surrey Hills.

A view across the Surrey Hills on a Midsummer's Day.

The Surrey Hills.

It’s Midsummer’s Day in the Surrey Hills. Not that Bobby would know. Listening to Robert Elms on Radio London, we will be lucky to see him vertical by lunchtime. (more…)

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Belonging: 150 Stories from Mindfully Bertie.

Posted on 30/06/2019 By

150 stories from Mindfully Bertie!

Yes dear, loyal friends, this is our 150th story. (Bobby prefers “story” to “blog”). Who could have thought that when we wrote the first one that we called a “preview”, we would still be going strong at 150? I should read that preview now… and see if we have kept our promises. Since it is 150, and Bobby has something special to get off his chest, the blog “belongs” to him this week and is all about:

Belonging.

Bobby sat on a groyne on Ferring Beach looking out to the horizon over the sea.

Seeking serenity at Ferring by Sea.

(more…)

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Guest Writer: Bernard Bruty, Inspired by Flowers.

Posted on 22/06/2019 By

This week we are delighted to welcome back our visiting contributor Bernard Bruty. Remember “Ernie’s War“? Here he tells you about his mother’s passion.

Inspired by Flowers

This can mean so much in many ways. My mother Doris was no exception…

Head and shoulders photo of Bernard's mother, Doris Bruty.

Doris, 1948.

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The Secrets of Worthing Gardens.

Posted on 16/06/2019 By

Worthing Gardens.

Ambrose Place Back Gardens.

Worthing Gardens - Ambrose Place Back Gardens Open Day Website.

Each year, the secret back gardens of Ambrose Place in Worthing are opened to the public in aid of the National Garden Scheme. The Yellow Book to many. Last year we went with Merrill and wrote a story about it, which never saw the light of day. So here it is. These gardens are open this year on Sunday 23 June. Details above. We will be there and maybe you? (more…)

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Sitting on a Bench.

Posted on 09/06/2019 By

Sitting on a Bench.

Sitting on a Bench: Queen Mary’s Garden. Regents Park, London.

Queen Mary’s Garden. Regents Park, London.

Bobby looks forward to Tuesdays. A train ride to London. Usually Farringdon. A nice walk to Islington, through what turns out to be the design centre of London. He always leaves the Al-Anon meetings feeling better than when he went in. And looking forward to a myriad of choices of how to spend an afternoon in the wonderful City. The sun shone. Someone on the early morning radio had mentioned the glory that is Queen Mary’s Garden within Regents Park. And so it was free bus pass rides to the park. We wrote a blog last year on the rose gardens and determined to seek serenity this time just reading a book all afternoon. The roses were only just starting so he found a seat by the wilder part of the garden looking across the lake. Shaded. Perfect. Pret bagette. Peach drink. Shortbread. What more could you want to spend an afternoon finding serenity reading a book? (more…)

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Writing for Mental Health.

Posted on 02/06/2019 By

Writing for Mental Health.

Mental Health spelt out in Scrabble letters.

I am a writer. I write.
I am a good writer. Bobby told me so
I am a bad writer. Bobby’s mind told me so.
I don’t care what you say.
I do care what you think.
I am a writer. I am writing this.
I was always a writer who never wrote.
I am a writer with words tumbling in all directions.
I hope they make sense.
I hope you read them.
I am a writer. I read them.
I am a bear. My name is Bertie. I think a lot. Some bears do. (more…)

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The Darling Buds of May… “Murdered by Surrey County Council”

Posted on 26/05/2019 By

The Darling Buds of May… “Murdered by Surrey County Council”.

Darling Buds of May: Moon Daisies - Notice the buds of flowers to come.

Notice the buds of flowers to come.

David Gilmour… (once of Pink Floyd):

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds to shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimmed;
And every fair from fair sometimes declines,
By chance, or nature’s changing course, untrimmed;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander’st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow’st;
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

William Shakespeare

We make no apology for using Shakespeare’s famous love sonnet to announce our intention of trying to stop Surrey County Council wasting taxpayers’ money by their annual destruction of the wild environment along the A24 south of Dorking. It does, after all, relate the human condition to the natural environment.

At a time when there is a world beyond Brexit that is seriously concerned about biodiversity, mental health and economy, their action is inconceivable to many of us. Do they realise how much they upset some of us to see such wanton destruction?

The same policy undoubtedly exists elsewhere in Surrey and beyond. But not, so it would appear, further south in Sussex.

To establish our remit in campaigning for the future of next year’s darling buds, we will concentrate on one very small area of the A24 to challenge the Council. Out of the six miles of dual carriageway with a wide central reserve and wide verges, this is typical of what was mown down indiscriminately last week.

The following pictures were all taken on Tuesday 14 May within a few yards of the chevron sign. Whatever Surrey County Council may choose to make of this action, there is no rule on earth to stop me walking through a nature reserve. Alive with insects. A real pleasure. Not something I would normally do, but I saw the cones appearing and guessed what was about to happen. In the pictures you will notice that the moon daisies in particular had only just started flowering. They were mostly still in bud. A portent of what was to come.

Tuesday 14 May

A profusion of flowers and grasses – our Darling Buds of May:

A roundabout with a glorious profusion of moon daisies and buttercups.

The grass verge approaching the roundabout - a veritable reserve of wild flowers including moon daisies and buttercups.

The grass verge, from a bit further back, approaching the roundabout - a veritable reserve of wild flowers including moon daisies and buttercups.

Profusion of buttercups in the grass verge.

A veritable wildlife haven in the grass verge: Moon Daisies, Buttercups and Clover.

Still plenty of buds in this grass verge.

Clover and other wildlife attracting goodies in the grass verge.

Buttercups... and more.

Slender Toothwort (Cardamine Nuttallii) in the Surrey grass verges.

Wild Flowers in the Verge.

Buttercups and Daisies in the grass verge.

Buttercups and other wild flowers in front of the chevrons on the roundabout.

Daisies on the roundabout.

More wild flowers in the verge.

Thursday 15 May

The Aftermath:

Roundabout devoid of all the wild flowers. Freshly mown and coned off.

Where there once were beautiful wild flowers, Surrey County Council have cut them down in their prime.

Surrey County Council sign apologising for any inconvenience during these apparently "essential" works!

Essential?

Saturday 18 May

Thanks to Surrey County Council, where there was a beautiful thriving wildflower verge full of life, now all there is is a dead hayfield.,

Hayfield. Dead. Lifeless. Hard to believe this had been a thriving wildflower haven for insects and other wildlife only a few days ago.

Lighting a Candle for Diddley and the Moon Daisies.

Bertie, a vase of Moon Daisies and a lit candle for Diddley.

Diddley adored the Moon Daisies and looked forward to their annual appearance on the A24. I had always called them Ox-Eye Daisies and it seems that the various names come from the part of the country you lived in. In her glorious Cotswolds, they are known by the much more evocative name of Moon Daisy. At her funeral, her daughter Amber included this is in her eulogy:

“I always feel close to mum in June not only because it’s my birth month, it is the time of year for moon daisies which appear by the roadside. Every year she always commented on how they reminded her of being pregnant with me, and this year they were particularly abundant.”

Our research found the following snippets:

www.moondaisies.blogspot.com/2014/09

Names: Ox-Eye Daisy, Dog Daisy, Field Daisy, Marguerite, Moon Daisy, Moon-Penny, PoorLand Penny, Poverty Daisy and White Daisy.

From a Gloucestershire church website:

”Buy plant ‘plugs’ from a company like www.plantwild.co.uk (01531 670 797) that can be planted in corners and allowed to naturalise through the churchyard.

Suitable plants to start with are: Cowslips, Aquilegia, Foxgloves, Blue Geraniums, Moon Daisies, Scabious – both field and devil’s bit(!). Start with larger, stronger varieties. Others like Spotted Orchids may well follow.

We owe it to Diddley to try to stop this unnecessary destruction of these darling buds of May and June. With reasoned debate. Not confrontation. The plants will recover and, given good growing conditions, rapidly become a problem in late summer to be mowed down again at great expense. But, the flowers are gone for another year. As have the seeds, the insects and the birds that benefit from both.
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Trees and NatureWildlife    


The Isabella Plantation – A Journey Through Time

Posted on 19/05/2019 By

The Isabella Plantation.

A Journey through Time.

Sid and Dorothy (Bobby’s parents) loved The Isabella Plantation. It’s an abiding memory of a long time ago. Especially the day they took him there on the 213 bus.

A black and white photograph ofSid and Dorothy in 1954(ish) standing arm in arm outside a semi-detached house.

Sid and Dorothy in 1954(ish).

Bobby has been there many times in recent years, but never again by 213 bus. (more…)

BusesGardens    


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